Thursday, December 25, 2008

Mitzvah Day







Just a brief note to tell all of you what a fantastic afternoon we had for Mitzvah Day! We had about 25 people here at BCAC helping us make this place look great. Volunteers painted our logo on the wall, assembled art kits for the kids who come through here, painted mural plaques to be continued by our children here, and really cleaned out and organized our huge collection of books and blankets that we give away. During that time balloon animals and new friends were made.

Thank you to Jewish Volunteer Connection for making us a stop on Community Mitzvah Day – we were thrilled to have the help and expect that it will begin a monthly series of volunteer opportunities for people to help BCAC. A special thank you to our incredible core of volunteers who gave us their all – you are welcome to come back anytime.


Photos are posted on our website http://www.bcaci.org/support_us/community_events/community_mitzvah_day

Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukah, and a safe and healthy new year to all.


Warmest wishes,

Adam

Sunday, December 21, 2008

Audacious Idea - Let's End Sexual Child Abuse

Here's a post that I submitted to OSI's Audacious Ideas Blog in the fall. I'm reposting it here for your review and comment. (Click here for the original post) Over the coming months, BCAC plans to unveil an ambitious, audacious, and attainable plan to educate ALL of Baltimore City over the 6 years in preventing sexual child abuse.

What if I told you that as a city we could reduce the incidents of sexual child abuse by 48%?

Consider the fact that last year, the Baltimore Child Abuse Center interviewed 793 children about allegations of sexual child abuse; now consider national estimates that only one in 10 children report the abuse.

Baltimore City statistics show that 82% of children who reported abuse knew their abuser. A significant proportion of abusers who these children know are young men who have grown up in a culture that tells them it’s acceptable to have sex with a 12 year old – which is in fact rape, regardless of consent.

We need to start talking frankly and publically about child sexual abuse in Baltimore. Teaching our kids “good touch/bad touch” is insufficient. It inappropriately puts the burden on the child victim to stand up and say what happened – adults must take responsibility for the safety and healthy development of children. We must go from a fear based approach to one that confronts these issues head on in an open dialogue. We must also educate parents and teachers through outreach to schools, religious institutions and community groups. Adults need to know what to look out for as well as what to say and do to stop abuse. They also need to believe children who talk about alleged abuse rather than doubting their words simply because they are children.

It’s essential we confront boys and young men ages 15 to 21. They are not necessarily predatory sex offenders but opportunistic sex offenders, whose behavior can be most easily and least expensively influenced. Through candid discussions in classrooms, youth centers, and religious institutions with potential victims, potential perpetrators and even bystanders about the rules, ramifications and criminal penalties of their actions, we can begin to change the culture, prevent abuse and salvage many lives. By helping all possibly affected impressionable youths identify the factors that put them at risk of being hurt themselves or hurting others and empowering them to develop their own protections, we can begin to dramatically reduce the incidents of future sexual abuse.

Nationally, child sexual abuse costs taxpayers an estimated $24.4 billion a year for health care, social services, and law enforcement. Sexually abused/assaulted children are 74 percent more likely to commit a crime against another person and 24 times more likely to become abusers themselves.

The Centers for Disease Control & Prevention has declared child sexual maltreatment a preventable public health problem and recommended adoption of an ongoing and coordinated community prevention response. What are we waiting for?

It’s been done. By confronting this issue, the State of Vermont – whose socio-economic and offender data is similar to Baltimore’s – reduced its rate of reported child sexual abuse by 48 percent over 10 years. They implemented the above programs and curriculum in their schools and communities and committed to changing the dialogue about how they address sexual abuse. Educators, parents, and youth workers as well as teenage children have for years participated in comprehensive health education and violence prevention programs which resulted in promoting healthy relationships, safe lines of communication, and empowered adults to dramatically reduce sexual child abuse. It’s time we take similar action in Baltimore and focus on aggressively fighting sexual child abuse in our city.

Thursday, December 11, 2008

So, where do we go from here?

Today concluded our fact finding mission. A diverse multi disciplinary team composed of health, education, government, religious, family leadership met for the last time in israel as a group. We met with colleagues from JDC to see the evaluations about PACT and then ask ourselves the tough question - what's next?

As for pact - again, the results begin to speak for themselves. It has enabled significant changes in 6 year educational development scores, significant increased employment - especially among women, lower poverty. "It" works - now, how do we implement?

The first steps were placed today - who will "our" program benefit? How big is the group? What is the structure? Who funds it and who runs it? How do we tell the story? And perhaps most importantly, how do we involve the community itself?

We all agreed to start talking and meeting quickly so as not to lose momentum. Perhaps its an anticlimatic posting after such an emotional week, but stay tuned for details and reflections.

Now - to enjoy a day in jerusalem. Tomorrow, I'm touring Jerusalem's Beit Lyn which is their CAC.

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Wednesday, December 10, 2008

My Moment











I saw a pre-school today where I got to join 30 four year olds who sang Hatikvah - nothing has quite hit me about being in a Jewish homeland with "old" israelis as well as new israeli olim from ethiopia, russia, eastern europe, and even a kid from chicago than getting to experience and participate in such a moment. It was quite beautiful.


So was the school - again, influenced and augmented by PACT. It's an amazing overlay to the existing excellent infrastructure with Ashkelon, Israel seems to have. the girl in purple above is also a new immigrant to israel - by way of chicago. she got to wave the flag for hatikvah. she was a part of a class of all jews - ethiopian, russian, morrocan, native israeli, and more - who were all one jewish people.
Ashkelon in itself proved to be an incredible experience for the group. if yesterday was the ah ha moment for all in understanding world jewry, today proved to be the power of how the people in program are affected by the work PACT does, JDC does and in turn we all do.



We truly experienced their experiences today. After gan and pre-gan this AM, we had an open discussion with social service leaders from Ashkelon to ask them how they do what they do - it led us to determine we need to begin to ask our own questions of what we want to accomplish. Then we went on home visits - we actually were invited in the homes of olim and in their words told us their experiences. my visit consisted of a father and his family of 5. the wife was out working and she told him to make us feel at home. he was a true olim success. he emigrated in 1984 at the age of 18 and now has a nice home and a job. he proudly showed us his certificate of excellence from the hospital where he works, and his scrapnel souvineer from when he served in the israeli army. he made us all feel quite at home.



some aren't so lucky, yet. one group saw a 24 year old single mother in an apartment without heat and a 6 month old baby. that group was stunned - but even moreso by JDC's response of that they will make sure the woman receives the services she needs. just like that. she potentially goes from despair to salvation thru JDC and PACT. just imagine what such a response can do at home?



we ended the evening with a chanukah show by the neighborhood kids - pact and locals alike. it was full of enthusiasm, parental involvement and of course cute songs. i saw how our reactions, our support, and our involvement makes a true difference. our group was quite moved - so much so, that blogging truly doesn't do it justice, but professional lives were changed today.



sure, sounds a bit dramatic, but i saw it with my eyes and its witnessed by a delegation of 16 professionals from baltimore looking to make a difference, but learning a whole lot in the process that they didn't bargain for.


keep reading - as i process this and share pictures and stories, maybe a part of it will begin to translate and make sense to you the reader.

Kindergarten in Ashkelon




Shal chevit kindergartners always share the best story and food. Had sufiganot (donuts) for chanukah. PACT once again provides the program enhancement iin the classroom - 3 olim required literacy and language enhancement taught by a pact instructor, but the whole class benefits because a 4th student - non ethiopian israeli olim - needed it as well and is able to improve her language and literacy due to pact's presence.

Its wonderful to see the partnership and ancillary benefits derived from having a pact partnership with a community.

Being in shal chevit's class was just like being in my own twins' class. Parental involvement was key - today the father of one of the boys was invited to cut the dabbah (bread) and share with the class. He was given the honor (and of course, like our kindergarteners, his little boy was equally embarrassed and clingy in his presence). The father, a proud olim, was very happy to be a part of the activity

Nissim, one of the boys, gave me some art to take home, which will hang proudly in my office next to my kids' art.

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Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Experiences between parents: Ethiopian Olim observations



Sitting in a riveting meeting in Netanya today. An Ethiopian-Jewish olim is sharing with us his experience (his peers) as a parent going thru absorption and PACT.

Most telling aspect is his point to preserve identity as to who they are as Ethiopians.

Most interesting, however, are the same concerns and strategies that we all use in social service delivery.

We shared ideas, saw more adorable children and their parents participating in programs all made possible or augmented by PACT.

The greatest moment of the day came during our reflections at the end of the day. Much of what we were seeing, the ethiopian-jewish experience, shared challenges all clicked. Steve Fink, my rabbi and my friend, summed it all up for our crowd of jewish and non jewish delegates as to why this was all done - because its about Jews helping other Jews. No matter where they live, what color their skin, their level of need, that's what we do, that's what JDC does, and that's why $30mm is raised by Baltimore Jews annually to support world Jewry. And although this isn't a "jewish" mission per se, the reason as to why such a life saving misson was undertaken became evident and then the group understood how and why this would work. I wish we had recorded it. All were extremely moved.

Tomorrow we visit olim in their homes in ashkelon.

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Monday, December 8, 2008

The kids always steal the show


What a whirlwind of a day. Today the group met the original and most established PACT program in Beersheva. They are confident, committed, not afraid to share their missteps nor to tout their successes (somethings we all can learn from).

The most telling portion of the day was in the previous post - that everyone will be successful and from an academic perspective they use pact methodology with all students. And from the students we saw at the givim school they really were one beautiful melting pot of kids. They danced, sang, played music, showed us science experiments, spoke great english and smiled for the camera. Another great group of ethiopian olim (immigrants) met us at the end of the day in their community room while they were making chanuka menorahs. They displayed beautiful crafts, fine coffee and food and their bright smiles. Photos to be posted soon.

Its too early to tell, but I think one of the reasons for pact's success here is the immense amount of interagency cooperation and the fact that social services is not an afterthought or cooperator, but seemingly a fully integrated partner (another lesson). That makes much of their work and case load possible.

They've even realized their need to tackle abuse - I haven't heard much on sexual abuse yet, but seeing spikes of domestic violence, pact along with community leadership (yet another lesson) collaborated and seem to have reduced the problem greatly. I requested #s which should be forthcoming. Imagine if we could show thru PACT that we can reduced abuse by comprehensive and holistic services for the whole family? Educational, workforce development, community engagement - it could be remarkable. Stay tuned.

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School children in Beer Sheva

Vsited a community school this morning in Beer Sheva which has the oldest implementation of pact in israel.

This school was wonderful - like looking at one our schools back home but with nothing but hebrew on the walls and hebrew speaking polite well educated children.

Liora, the principal, took the philosphy with pact that it should be applied to everyone, not just the olim. To that end they asked does everybody has to be excellent? Yes, we decided every child will be excellent.

Pact was inculcated throughout entire school - not just ethiopian olim and as a result their standards exceed other schools throughout israel and their olim students are just as adapted to their grade as the rest of the class.

The students performed dance and music for us and smiled for the camera. It was a warm wonderful community school and very proud.


Adam

Saturday, December 6, 2008

Why Israel? Why PACT

Answeing the obvious question (as I'm between flights in Newark) - why israel and why PACT? PACT was launched in 1998 in an effort to address the growing educational crisis within the ethiopian-israeli community by reducing the academic and social gaps between ethiopian-israeli children and their veteran israeli peers.

Holisitcally, pact (parents and children together) provides a comprehensive educational and community services for eth-israeli preschoolers, while at the same time offering targeted training and support to their parents, the community and local educators and service providers. These efforts are made possible by collaborations between jdc, north american jewish federations, local israeli municipalities, and the ethiopian-israeli community. The outcomes have been most impressive with significant improvement seen in most areas of achievement and gaps reduced between populations.

In 2004-05 over 8700 ethiopian-israeli children aged birth to 9 were impacted by pact along with over 3800 parents in specialized programs designed for them.

The East Baltimore Redevelopment Project, spearheaded by the east baltimore development inc (www.ebdi.org) is seeking to stabilize and revitalize east baltimore by transforming a once vibrant neighborhood into a healthier thriving community again for families and children. This redevelopment is working in conjunction with the massive 88 acre, $1.8 billion re-development efforts of that neighborhood.


Having seen the great success of pact in numerous communities in israel, ebdi wishes to learn from the successes and shortcomings of pact and how it can be replicated.

More to come.

Adam

Friday, December 5, 2008

Dispatches from Israel

I've been lucky enough to be invited to join a delegation of 12 brilliant people traveling to Israel tomorrow to study JDC's PACT program for use with the East Baltimore Development corporation's efforts.

I plan on posting thoughts and observations while over there - stay tuned and learn what I see as it happens.
Adam

Welcome

So here it is, the first post in an informal dialogue and forum on how we all can best advocate on behalf of Baltimore's children - first and foremost in preventing sexual child abuse and in bettering their lives as a whole.

We are the Baltimore Child Abuse Center (www.BaltimoreChildAbuseCenter.org) and for 20 years we've been fighting to make sure that when a child reports sexual child abuse, she or he is listened to, gets the attention and treatment they need and begin the process of healing. We are a not for profit 501c3 designed to act rapidly and work on behalf of families experiencing trauma.

Here at this blog we intend to take the conversation public - get people to start talking about how we begin to end abuse; provide solutions and ideas; provoke discussion; change attitudes.

At this page we'll post articles, discussions, links, strategies, and information about organizations. It's a call to action for you the reader to become an advocate as well. We want it to be current, written by all of us at BCAC - staff, board, partners, and families. It may have typos and be more stream of consciousness, but that's web 2.0 and we want to be a part of the discussion.

This is a companion piece to our webpage and we intend to link back and forth between the two.

If you don't know BCAC, check out our site. If you don't realize abuse is happening to children, right now, start reading and begin to do something about it. Now.